Becoming a Mother: The Transformation We Don’t Talk About Enough
Becoming a mother is one of the biggest transitions we experience in life — yet we often speak about it as if it is only about the arrival of a baby.
The truth is, a baby is born, but a mother is also being born. The transition into motherhood has a name: matrescence.
Matrescence describes the physical, emotional, psychological and social transformation that happens as we become mothers. Similar to adolescence, it is a period of profound change where our bodies, brains, relationships, identity and sense of self are reshaped.
During this time, our brains adapt to support caregiving, our priorities shift, and we begin to navigate a new version of ourselves. We may experience deep love and connection, while also feeling uncertainty, grief for our previous identity, overwhelm or a sense of not fully recognising ourselves.
This is not a sign that something is wrong. It is part of a normal human transition. Yet many mothers are expected to simply “adjust” and find their way alone.
Historically, mothers were supported by a village — family, community and experienced caregivers who surrounded them during this vulnerable time. Today, many mothers experience this transition with less support, more pressure and the expectation that they should know how to do it all.
But mothers need support too.
We need people who can guide us, listen to us and remind us that we are not alone. We need access to trusted, evidence-based information and professionals who understand the complexity of this transition.
The journey into motherhood is not just about caring for a baby. It is about becoming someone new.
The Maternal Village SA was created from the belief that every mother deserves support, connection and a village around her — not only during the joyful moments, but also during the challenging, uncertain and vulnerable seasons.
Because when we support mothers, we support families.
And every mother deserves a village.